During the past weeks that my mother has been staying in the house, I have seen changes in our family; many and big changes. My father who has always been hot tempered, I can say that he has been patient with my mother the last few weeks. He carries my mother to the comfort room, he goes with her every Monday for check-ups and I have never heard any complaints from him. This proves his love for my mother. Through those times that they fight, they don't agree with each other's decision and through those times that they just want to give up their relationship, I am proud to tell that their relationship has gotten stronger than before. Understanding sure is important if you want to have a great relationship with your partner.
To myself, I have also seen changes. I've been patient too. There are times when I just want to pretend that I don't hear anything of what she says, that I don't hear her call my name, that I just want to ignore her because I'm busy in front of the computer. But just thinking about the nights that she didn't sleep because I have a fever, about the times she never got angry at me and about the way she loves me, I can't just ignore her.
It's ironic that you can change easily for the person you love, and you can't understand how or why.
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